In life, there is rarely anything that is in black & white. Most of it is in the spectrum, spread over various colors. Our mind oversimplifies it to black and white, or a positive or negative.
It’s a good thing that it is in the spectrum because we can bend the mind to decide whether it’s happy or sad, or glass is half full or half empty.
Look at any condition in life initially if it’s a happy condition there comes a point when that condition will start looking sad. Or it can be somewhere in the middle. Similarly, sometimes the initial impression of a person will be excellent but later it turned out to be a not-so-good person.
If you look deeper it’s all about our interpretation of the condition, the person, or the scenario, it is all in our mind, it’s in the spectrum.
In the end, it’s the mind that decides the side of the spectrum, good side or bad side, positive or negative.